Service held for Asbury teacher John Key Jr., killed in tragic Parkway crash
Tuesday, October 25th, 2011This is an article from the Asbury Park Press, here is a link to the article:
Accident victim’s friends, family fill the Paramount
ASBURY PARK — John U. Key Jr., the 37-year-old middle school teacher and assistant high school football coach who died in a Garden State Parkway accident Oct. 16, was remembered Monday as a quiet man who didn’t try to draw attention to himself, but let his life shine.
The Rev. Byron P. Wess, pastor of Key’s church, Second Baptist, made clear in his eulogy at the Paramount Theatre that Key’s premature death was not God’s doing. Rather, God is one’s strength when such a tragedy happens, Wess said.
Key died after being involved in a minor collision on the northbound lanes of the Parkway in Wall about 2 a.m. on a Sunday morning. He got out of his car and walked across several lanes to check on the occupants of the other car.
Key was killed when a third car struck him as he was making his way back to his own car, authorities have said.
“I’m sure you thought, ‘If only he hadn’t gotten on the Parkway, if only he hadn’t collided with the vehicle, if only he hadn’t gotten out of his car,’ ” Wess said. “But I submit the real tragedy is if John would have been the type of person who didn’t get out of his car.
“John died as he lived … moving beyond his space to see if someone needed something in their space,” the pastor said.

